Parker Palmer in his book Let Your Life Speak notes that the Latin derivation of "vocation" is rooted in "voice." Life speaks to us and can be a guide in our choices for our life's path. Learning to discern and listen to your own voice, hopes, talents as they speak to you, independent of the well-intentioned messages you may have assimilated from family, friends or society at large can be helpful.
Listen to the patterns, the synchronicities, the awakenings of the mind and heart when you engage in something. Listen to your body...listen to the ease, the lightness, the fluidity of voice, the elongation of your spine, the curiosity of the moments. Listen to your heart: does she feel expansive, open, generous and warm?
Listen and be led to where Love is meeting you...